Be a visualizer. Before you go into your bedroom when you know you’re going to have sex, take 5 minutes in a quiet place by yourself and picture what you want to have happen in the bedroom. Try to see it clearly, almost feel it.
Picture someone you think is really sexy – maybe some hot scenes from a movie that really turned you on. (Think Diane Lane and Richard Gere or Justin Timberlake and anyone). Then when you go into the bedroom, your odds of making that happen are way higher!