Quote of the day

“In trying to understand my attraction to sex, I’ve come to realize that in addition to control and paradoxically, lack of control, sex has given me tremendous power.” Sizzlethebook.com

Question

When you’re unhappy in bed with something you’re partner is doing or isn’t doing, how long does it take you to say something?

Saturday Sex Tip

Try becoming each other in bed for a day. You be him and he can be you. If you’re a gay or lesbian couple, you can still do this, it just takes a bit more work. You have to really … Continue reading

Saturday Sex Tip

Find 3 or 4 photos of yourself as a teenager.  Then find a few of your partner.  Take about 15 – 30 minutes and write out a script for both of you as those teenagers.  Start out with a first … Continue reading

Saturday Sex Tip

I had someone ask me recently if I thought that all sex was about was techniques and tricks.  My answer …absolutely not!  I believe that really great sex happens the same way most really great things happen – with lots … Continue reading

Saturday Sex Tip

Try playing with your food. Put together a plate of 4 or 5 tasty foods your partner likes.  Make sure they not only taste different but have different textures. Smooth and juicy pear, soft baguette center dipped in olive oil, … Continue reading

Saturday Sex Tip

Set up a treasure hunt! You’ll need to plan ahead but it’ll be worth it. Pick a place like a park or pretty open space not too far from your home.  Prepare 8-10 items of yours your partner will recognize … Continue reading

Saturday Sex Tip

Get ready to give your partner the most unusual and sensual massage ever!! First, get a good body oil – pick something that has an enticing smell – not too overpowering.  Get a plastic sheet and a soft old sheet … Continue reading

Quote from Sizzle

Here is a small excerpt from my book Sizzle. I had plunked down on the edge of the bed, sitting with my legs crossed.  I was wearing a short pink sundress with thin straps and sandals.  My dress unbuttoned down … Continue reading